Jay Theodore Ingraham

Jay Theodore Ingraham, 65, passed away on Monday, November 3, 2025, at Moore Regional Hospital, surrounded by his family.

Jay spent the early part of his life in Indian Harbor, Florida, and was the son of Norman Rockwell and Betsy Farrell Ingraham. A passionate divemaster, Jay found great joy in scuba diving and sharing his love of the ocean with others.  He worked as a civilian contractor with Robin Sage, helping train members of the Special Forces—an experience that deepened his admiration and respect for the men and women who bravely serve our country.

Jay loved the beach, whether fishing, diving, or simply taking early morning walks along the shore.  Saturdays often found him happily exploring the flea markets in Fayetteville, always on the lookout for a good find.  Known for his outgoing personality and generous heart, he was a true friend to many and never hesitated to lend a hand to anyone in need.

Jay is survived by his mother, Betsy Ingraham of Carthage; two sons, Kevin Hudson of Hilton Head and Brent McDonald (Meghan) of Whispering Pines; twin brother, Cary Ingraham (Kathleen) of West End and brother, Norman Ingraham, Jr. of Melbourne, Florida; and nephew, Cary Ingraham, Jr. of West End.

An evening visitation will be held from 5:00 p.m. until 7:00 p.m., on Wednesday, November 5, 2025, at Fry and Prickett Funeral Home, 402 Saunders Street, Carthage, NC, 28327.

Online condolences can be made at PinesFunerals.com

The care of Mr. Ingraham has been entrusted to Fry and Prickett Funeral Home.