Mary Bernice Flinchum Dowdy

December 4, 1929 ~ December 22, 2021
Born in:
Moore County , NC
Resided in:
Carthage, NC
Bernice Flinchum Dowdy, age 92 of Carthage, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, December 22, 2021 at FirstHealth Moore Regional Hospital in Pinehurst.
A native of Moore County, she was a daughter of the late Isaac Jones and Lucy Mae (Mock) Flinchum. Bernice and her late husband Jessie Franklin Dowdy lived in Gulf for many years while raising their daughters. She worked in textiles earlier in life and in 1984 she and Frank moved back to Moore County.
Bernice was a great cook and there were many great memories made and shared in the kitchen and around the dining room table. She loved her family and her God. Her daughters have fond memories of spending time together boating and skiing at Lake Waccamaw and Lake Gaston, and vacations to the mountains. Bernice and Frank enjoyed traveling and were fortunate to be able to see many of our national parks.
Bernice spent many years at Bethany Baptist Church in Gulf nurturing the lives of many children and youth. In her retirement years, she enjoyed being on the cemetery committee and various other committees at Calvary Baptist Church in Carthage.
In addition to her husband of 73 years Frank, she was preceded in death by her infant daughter Peggy Lee Dowdy; grandson Franklin Ross Cheek; brother Junior Issac Flinchum and wife Mary Lee; sister Dot Flinchum Guthrie and husband Ray; brother Billy Flinchum and wife Margaret.
She is survived by her daughters Debbie Sullivan and husband Mickey, Phyllis Overton and husband Brent, Lynn Meyers and husband Al all of Carthage, Frankie Dowdy Quinn of Whitsett; nephew Gregory Ritter and wife Kinzia of Carthage; seven grandchildren and seven great-grandchildren.
An outdoor funeral service will be 2:00 pm Monday, December 27, 2021 at Calvary Baptist Church. Burial will follow in the church cemetery. Those attending who are not family are asked to bring a lawn chair to sit in. The family will receive friends prior to the service outside the church beginning at 1:00. The body will lie in state in the church from 1:00 – 2:00.
Due to the increased risk of Covid, and for the safety of others the family asks that all attending the service please wear a mask.
Memorials may be made to: The American Heart Association, P.O. Box 840692, Dallas, TX 75284-0692 or, to Pastor Toss Moore, Calvary Baptist Church – Cemetery Fund, 548 Marley Road, Robbins, NC 27325.
Fry & Prickett Funeral Home is serving the Dowdy family.
Online condolences may be made at PinesFunerals.com.
Services
Visitation: December 27, 2021 1:00 pm - April 27, 2025 2:00 pm
Calvary Baptist Church
549 Plank Road
Robbins, NC 27325
910-948-3826
Funeral Service: December 27, 2021 2:00 pm
Calvary Baptist Church
549 Plank Road
Robbins, NC 27325
910-948-3826
Dear Phyllis.
Eddie an I are so sorry to read about your mother. Praying God gives you all peace and comforts your hearts.
Cherish the memories.
Sincere sympathy,
Eddie and Vetres Livengood
thank you so much for your kind words. Phyllis
Bernice was such a lovely and kind lady who brought so much love and joy into the lives of others. Deepest condolences to her daughters and extended family. Prayers for each of you at this most difficult time as she rejoices walking through those pearly gates. 🌹🌹
thank you so much Lana…we love our mother dearly…. Phyllis
I am so sorry to hear of Bernice’s passing. I have many good memories of playing at the tobacco barn with her girls many, many years ago. I know how much she loved her children and she was lucky to have such a long life and enjoy so much. I remember going to Lake Wacamaw one year. Summers on the farm were the best thanks to the kindness of Bernice and Mary Lee and all the girls.
Willie
Willie, we have been trying to find you….thank you so much for the memories you wrote…my ph nos is 910 695 6797. Phyllis
I will miss Bernice and join the whole Dowdy family as we celebrate her great life. I have so many memories that go way back- from riding tricycles with Phyllis, remembering when Frankie was brought home from hospital, riding to school in Debbie’s new Mustang, chasing Lynn with a coconut head and Frank pulling Howard Jr out of the ditch. Bernice was always there to support our family in needed times and very important in the nurturing of John who loved her very much. Love Robert
Oh Robert, what wonderful memories we had growing up in Gulf. Our mothers were the best. Love the memories. We had the perfect childhood, loved our mother dearly and she is so missed already..love, Phyllis