Wanda Whitaker Garner

wanda garner

July 11, 1948 ~ January 14, 2026

Born in: Moore County, NC
Resided in: Carthage, NC

Wanda Whitaker Garner of Carthage, NC, went home to be with the Lord on January 14, 2026, while surrounded by her family. She is now peacefully reunited with her husband, Don Garner. Wanda was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, and friend to many people in the community.

Wanda was born in Moore County on July 11, 1948. She was the daughter of the late Elmer Whitaker and Oma Campbell Whitaker. She was preceded in death by her husband, Don Garner. She was also preceded in death by her brothers, Wilton Ray Whitaker and Roy Whitaker; and her sisters, Shirley Walsh and Sybil Garner. 

Wanda devoted her life to caring for others. She served as Postmaster in Glendon and Bennett, NC. She later ran a home daycare, caring for many children, including her own grandchildren.

Known for her sense of humor, welcoming home, and excellent cooking, Wanda’s strong faith guided her life. She and her husband also founded the Five Mile Flea Market on Joel Road in Carthage, NC, reflecting their shared love for people and community.

From an early age, Wanda shared her faith through music. She sang with her sisters as a member of The Whitaker Girls, a Southern Gospel group that performed in churches, at revivals, and on local radio. Their harmonies continued to bless family gatherings for many years.

She is survived by her three sons, Brian Phillips of Carthage, NC; Kevin Phillips (Kellie) of Conover, NC; and Shannon Phillips of Highfalls, NC; her stepdaughter, Donna Garner Murphy (Brad) of Glendon, NC; and her stepson, Ryan Garner (Kim) of Highfalls, NC. She is also survived by her grandchildren: Jacob Phillips of Bennett, NC; Hannah Phillips of Charlotte, NC; Samuel Phillips of Carthage, NC; Maddy Phillips of Conover, NC; Jack Phillips of Conover, NC; Makayla Garner of Highfalls, NC; and Van Ritter of Glendon, NC; her siblings, Janet Frye of Albemarle, NC; Lucille Collins (Billy) of Vass, NC; Bonnie Garner of Vass, NC; and Gail Gathagan (Gene) of Knoxville, TN; Russell Whitaker (Mary Ruth) of Carthage; as well as multiple nieces and nephews, whom she loved dearly.

On Sunday, January 18, 2026, at Yates Thagard Baptist Church in Carthage, NC, a visitation will take place at 2:00 pm. Then, a Celebration of Life will be held at 3:00 pm with Sammy Frye officiating. Burial will follow at Yates Thagard Cemetery, where she will be laid to rest beside her husband.

 In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in memory of Wanda Garner to Gentiva Hospice (1836 Doctors Drive, Sanford, NC 27330) or Yates Thagard Baptist Church (3820 Vass-Carthage Road, Carthage, NC 28327).

Services

Visitation: January 18, 2026 2:00 pm - 3:00 pm

Yates-Thagard Baptist Church
3820 Vass-Carthage Road
Carthage , NC 28327

910-949-3511
https://www.yatesthagard.com/

Funeral Service: January 18, 2026 3:00 pm

Yates-Thagard Baptist Church
3820 Vass-Carthage Road
Carthage , NC 28327

910-949-3511
https://www.yatesthagard.com/

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Charities

The family greatly appreciates donations made to these charities in Wanda Whitaker Garner 's name.

Gentiva Hospice Foundation

3350 Riverwood Place, SE Suite 1400

Atlanta,

GA

app.etapestry.com

Yates-Thagard Baptist Church

3820 Vass- Carthage Road

Carthage,

NC

910-949-3511

www.yatesthagard.com

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  1. Praying for all family, she was one of a kind. She made Don Garner one happy man. Happiness followed her. She is having a glorious reunion now with all those loved ones she lost here.

    • Our Whitaker gatherings will never be the same. Always the life of the party, Wanda could make any event joyful.
      Loved my sweet sister-in-law.

  2. Kevin, Brian, Shannon, Donna, Ryan and family,
    Kim and I are grieved for you all in your loss of Mrs. Garner. A kind, friendly lady with great concern and caring for family and friends. She will be missed. May God cradle you all in His loving arms in your grief and in the days to come. We love you. Kim and Bruce Williams

  3. Sending prayers and my deepest condolences to the family. May God comfort you now and in the days to come.

  4. We take consolation during this difficult period from MHB 511:
    Begone, Unbelief; my savior is near,
    And for my relief will surely appear:
    By prayer let me wrestle, and He will perform;
    With Christ in the vessel, I smile at the storm.

    Sometimes, we may wish with our dear Mom for a while, but God knows best. Let’s unite and continue her legacy. My prayer goes to the family and the children, particularly Dr. Brian Phillips. God sheds his mercies on all.

  5. Praying that the Lord will comfort you and your family during this time. Wanda was a very sweet lady. I know she’ll be greatly missed.

  6. I will miss our almost daily phone calls and stopping by to check on you every week or so. I have never known a more generous person. If she had it, it was yours if you wanted or needed it.
    We didn’t agree on everything, but we loved each other unconditionally!
    Till we meet again sister……

  7. My heartfelt condolences. I hope you find comfort in the love and memories you shared. I pray for your peace and strength. May mom‘s memory always make you smile. Losing a parent is a pain like no other. May GOD give you strength, comfort in your sorrow and “peace that’s surpasses all understanding” Phil 4:7.

  8. Love and prayers to the boys and all of their families. They are all in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

  9. I am so sorry for your loss Wanda was wonderful person and I will miss her prayers for her family I love you guys so much

  10. I just read about Wanda and was so shocked. She was such a special, wonderful woman. We went to school at Farm Life and Union Pines, so i have known her and her family since I was 6. I loved hearing her and her sisters sing. Praying for all her family, for GOD to comfort them. I know she missed Don and Sybil and her family that have passed so much, but now she is with them. GOD BLESS all her family.
    Sincere sympathy,
    Eddie and Vetres Livengood

  11. Thoughts & prayers are with the family. Wanda was a sweet lady. Love & prayers,
    Harold, Pat, & Misty Clark
    Psalms 116:15

  12. A beautiful lady, always had a beautiful smile and always willing to help anyone that needed her. I m so sorry to hear of her passing. Prayers for the family.

  13. I am so sorry to read of cousin Wanda’s passing. My mother, Doris Richardson Elliott, was her first cousin and I so enjoyed visiting with the Whitakers when we visited from SC. I will sorely miss Wanda’s quick, funny wit on FB. May peace cover all of you in knowing she is reunited with her loved ones already gone on before. All my love, Vanessa Elliott Wideman

    • My beautiful Sister, I can’t believe you are gone, my heart will be forever broken without you. How am I going to get through the days without hearing your voice and talking about everything under the sun, laughing, crying, every emotion we could share with each other so easily. I miss you so much already. Knowing you are out of pain makes losing you a little easier. I love you beyond words.❤️

  14. Wanda was such a sweet lady. been knowing Wanda and her husband ever since they run the snow cone place in Carthage. going to miss you Wanda so much. may you rip with your husband.god bless your family.

  15. My condolences to the family, most especially Dr. Brian Philips. May the good Lord strengthen you and guide your ways in this difficult times.

  16. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family at this difficult time. When I learned about her passing, I thought about the times I would see her sitting on Ruth UpChurch’s front porch swing and singing. She was such a sweet and talented person. Growing up in Highfalls, I have known her and her precious boys practically all my life. What a great reunion in heaven she is having in heaven with our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, her family and so many friends. We pray that you all will be blessed each day with our Lord’s comfort and His peace.
    Love to you all,

  17. Please accept our sincere condolences, and know you’ll be in our thoughts and prayers as you celebrate the life of this wonderful woman.

  18. To all of the family
    I am very sorry for your loss. Wanda was definitely one of a kind! She filled the room with her larger that life personality. I know she will be missed. Sending love, hugs and prayers!!

  19. Wanda was a kind, friendly, and loving lady. Our thoughts and prayers are extended to her family. May God continue to comfort you during this time.

  20. With our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time .
    Your momma was a sweet lady. She will be missed !

  21. Lucille, Russell and families, We were looking for another obituary when we saw Wanda’s. Many memories arose of this spirited, laughing,former neighbor, basketball team mate and friend. Wanda was one of a kind and while we have not seen her regularly for a good while, the mention of her name brings a smile. We hope you will have peace of heart knowing she is now resting in a grand, wonderful place. Jody and Paula

  22. So sorry for your loss. Wanda was a pillar of the Highfalls community for many many years. Always a friendly smile and hello. She will be missed.

  23. I am so sorry to hear about Wanda. You had a beautiful mom inside and out. I loved her when I was younger as I do now. Praying for all of you in the days ahead.


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