Judy Sherman Barrenger

judy barrenger

March 7, 1941 ~ October 9, 2026

Born in: Pleasant Valley, New York
Resided in: Southern Pines, North Carolina

Judy Sherman Barrenger, 85, of Southern Pines, North Carolina, passed away on October 9, 2026. She was a devoted wife, loving mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother, and a talented woman whose life was filled with family, creativity, a love of animals and a passion for golf. 

Judy was born at home in Pleasant Valley, New York, to Francis Sherman and Elsie Martin Sherman. Her arrival was memorable from the very beginning, as a massive early spring snowstorm prevented her parents from making the trip to the hospital. 

Judy was the beloved wife of Robert A. Barrenger, surviving at home, and they enjoyed 67 years of married life. Judy was the proud mother of Mary Jane Barrenger, James (Patti) Barrenger, Suzanne Card, and Paul Barrenger. Whether it was a sporting event, a band concert, or a chorus performance, Judy never missed an opportunity to be there for her children. 

A woman of many talents, Judy had a creative spirit and gifted hands. She could draw and paint, sew, knit, crochet, and do woodworking; making things that reflected her creative skills. She also had a passion for golf and was an avid player who proudly achieved not one, but two holes-in-one. 

Judy was a very successful credit and collections manager for several corporate entities. She loved her work and performed her duties with compassion and thoughtfulness. 

A lifelong lover of dogs, Judy had a special place in her heart for her “son” Dixie, our 5th sibling – who brought her much companionship and joy. 

A lifetime traveler Judy and Robert took more than 30 cruises. A favorite trip was the mule train ride down into the Grand Canyon. Many fond memories were made during travels both abroad and within the USA before and after her 2002 retirement. 

Judy was a proud grandmother to Heather, Jim, Jennifer, Jeffrey, Stephanie, Austin, and Jonathan, and a loving great-grandmother to all her great-grandchildren/Judy was predeceased by her parents, her sister Patricia Kinsella-Dingee, her brother, Francis John Sherman, her son-in-law, David Card and her daughter in law Kim Barrenger. 

The family extends heartfelt gratitude to the staff at Peak Resources Pinelake and Liberty Hospice for their kindness, compassion, and dedication in keeping Judy safe and caring for her. Their support and care are deeply appreciated. 

Judy will be remembered for her devotion to her family, her many talents, her enthusiasm for life, and the love she showed through simply being there. Her presence will be missed, but the memories she leaves behind will remain in the hearts of all who knew and loved her. 

There will be no funeral or memorial service at this time. The date for Judy’s celebration of life will be announced later. 

Online condolences can be made at PinesFunerals.com

Fry & Prickett Funeral Home is serving the Barrenger family.

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  1. Robert and family I was deeply saddened to hear of Judy’s passing. Know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. Robert you carry a special place in my heart as you were the best father in law ever!
    Always, Jane

  2. Barrenger Family,
    I am very sorry to hear of the passing of my Aunt Judy.
    It has been a long time since I have seen her, but I will never forget her smile and how talented she was.
    She was a wonderful friend and loved her pup so much. She has a wonderful family that will miss her so much.❤️❤️

  3. Robert and family,Judy and I are very saddened to here about Judy’s passing. We will never forget the fun we had together on our cruises and the visit we had together at your house. She was a great friend. Robert we will talk soon.

    • Paul and Judy
      Judy and I both liked our the Diamond time cruising with you. Enjoyed the three hour cocktails and all the food they had. Not sure that was Judys choice but she did enjoy the mumchies.

  4. To all –

    We send sincere condolences to you on the passing of your wife and mother. We have fond memories of your family at Pleasant Valley Little League and school events. We sure did live in a great town with good friends.

    The Murphy family
    Pleasant Valley, NY

    • To all the Murphy Family Members
      I can certainly agree, Pleasant Valley was a great place to raise a family. Thank for your note

  5. Judy always kicked my butt on the golf course, but she never rubbed it in. She was always a straight shooter and got directly to the point. The world needs more like her.
    Condolences to: Robert, Mary Jane, Jimmy, and Paul.

    Jim & Cheryl Wieland

  6. Barrenger Family, My deepest condolences on your loss. I worked with Judy at DeLaval/AlfaLaval in accounts receivable years ago. Mr. Hamlin had his hands full with us. Her son, Jim did work on our house. I remember Judy, even back then, was an avid golf player. Her up attitude and antics made our day. I will always remember her vibrant personality and smile. Thoughts and prayers are with you all.
    Rusti McGrath
    Pleasant Valley, NY

    • Rusti:
      Judy spoke of you often and i kind of felt sorry for Mr. Hamlin but she learned a lot from him about the world of credit and collections. I will always remember the night she came home from work and told me that she quit her job. When i asked why, she told me that she wanted to play more golf. Go figure. She did not lose all her income how ever. She always matched up with the older male players at McCanns and won money by beating them. She was never more happy. Thanks for your comments

  7. To one of my favorite families, so sorry to hear about Judy. She had sent a photo of her and my dad and aunts and uncle at the bus stop. Yup a B&W picture LOL. I saw she liked to travel, wasn’t most of them with Williams Lumber? LOL. I see a couple of you got the travel bug. I am sure is was really happy about that. I have some good memories of your whole family. She can rest in peace now. Love You All Shelley

    • We had some great trips with Sandy and Brenda Williams and some of the best contractors in the country. After we retired in 2002 our choice for a great vacation was cruising. Rented a cabin on a cruise ship every year since and for a lot of years rented a second one. If i was 7 or 8 days younger and still had my JUDY, in better health, i am sure we would still be cruising. The more you cruise the better the perks. Shelly, the best reason to cruise, is you meet some really nice people like we did with the Lancasters from Canada. If you have not cruised before, you should.

  8. Dear Barrenger family,
    My family(Williams) and I lived next door on North Avenue back in the 60’s. I have many good memories of Judy and your family. Judy used to cut my hair and often included me in activities with the kids. I had my first trip to a fast food restaurant (Carol’s) with the Barrengers. My first babysitting job was for your family. I always felt welcome in your home. I’m very sorry to hear of Judy’s passing. I hope you can take comfort in your memories of her and knowing how special she was to so many others as well.

    • Sherry: Thank you for remembering. So enjoyed our next door neighbors ,your mom and dad along with Todd and you

  9. Our most sincere regrets to your family for the loss of your Mother. I never met her, but have heard Mary Jane speak often about her and the positive influence she had on Mary Jane’s life. Always remember those awesome moments with her and how she influenced your lives. May you all find peace with each other and strength in family.
    We wish you all the very best as you face life through a new perspective.

    Since regards,

    Peter Larson


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