Rev. Michael Jackson Garber

michael garber

March 8, 1941 ~ October 18, 2023


Resided in: Whispering Pines, NC

The Reverend Michael Jackson Garber, “the Rev,” joined his Holy Father October 18, 2023. 

Mike was born in Davenport, Iowa, on March 8, 1941 to Arlene and Neil Garber.  He grew up in Des Moines,Iowa and Hinsdale, Illinois, surrounded by loving aunts and uncles.   His father taught him at a young age the game of golf, which became a lifelong love.   Though a competitive and skilled golfer, ( Mike had his own instructional golf TV program in Chicago, played with Jack Nicklaus), he pursued his religious calling. 

After graduating from Depauw University, Mike entered and received his Bachelor of Divinity at Eden Theological Seminary in Webster Groves, Missouri in 1965.  That same year,   Mike marched with Martin Luther King and organized a bus full of fellow supporters to join Reverend King in Alabama. 

From 1966-1976, Mike was the pastor of the First Congregational Church in East Bloomfield, NY.   In 1976, For our nation’s bicentennial celebration, he wrote a compelling speech entitled “I Am the Flag Of This Great Nation” which he delivered at the bicentennial celebration.  Mike has delivered this speech of incredible dedication to our country every year since for the Church and other civic groups. 

His love of golf and God brought him to the Sandhills, where he was the pastor of the Community Congregational Church, Southern Pines, NC, for almost 27 years.   He was dedicated to the Church, the Nation, and his parishioners. He  sang in the choir in the base section (he was proud of his perfect pitch). Mike served on several boards and was a co-founder of the Sandhills/Moore Coalition.  He enjoyed golf, the competition, the tournaments and the friends he made.  His large collection of trophies was proof of his success.  In 1970, Mike qualified for the British Open at St. Andrews.  He was the club champion at Oak Hill CC, Canandaigua CC, and Legacy CC.  He was a multi-winner of  the Moore County, various clergy tournaments and the Elks National.  In 1992, 50 years old, he qualified for the Senior Open at Saucon Valley, PA.

His was a life with poetry, books, sermons, beavers, ducks, dogs, (particularly his dog Brie named after the cheese), golf (lots of), oysters, hot sauce, motorcycles, fast cars (though he never drove them fast) and daily sunsets on the lake.  Mike authored several books. The latest that has been published is called “Dreamscapes”…about a curious traveler named Phineas.   October was his favorite month.  As a depression era baby, he loved the 2 for 1 deals at Harris Teeter-evidence is his full larder! 

Mike raised and loved his stepchildren, Chuck and Jill Hooper, like his own.   He was married and divorced to Ann Willis Sebrell and later Mary Walters.  He cherished their friendships immensely.  

He appreciated dear friendships with Emily Tobias, and  his “adopted son” John Cregan.  

A Celebration of Life will be announced at a later date.

A remembrance may be made to the Community Congregational Church in Southern Pines, or Sandhills Coalition For Human Care.

Services are entrusted to Powell Funeral Home.

Condolences can be made at PinesFunerals.com

To end in his own words:

Solitude hides in darkened rooms,

In foxfire on a summer night,

In the cries of a Great Horned Owl in flight,

Close by dead men in tombs,

Exuding a strength that never assumes,

The empty power to stir or excite,

Yet slowly fathers quiet delight

As gently as a Spring bud blooms.

 

Sweet solitude.  No man can own your soul,

Yet often he can go with peace

Letting silence keep him company

As he waits alone…alone

Until you graciously bestow

The gift of dreamless sleep.

Michael Garber

1941-2023

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  1. Rev Mike married my husband, Bob Flynt and I in 1999. Bob and “The Rev” had been friends for years and shared many memories and laughter. Rev. Mike was very surprised that Bob would spend $25 on a marriage license (Bob is cheap)and his first words to us as a to be married couple was “say it ain’t so, Flynt”! I could have been insulted by such words but I understood his sentiment and truly appreciated his kindness and friendship. Mike, rest easy knowing you touched many people’s lives and made a difference in this world. Thank you for helping me wed my best friend.

  2. Mike was my surrogate Dad. Often times we be in a restaurant and he would introduce me as “this is my son John, do you see the resemblance?” I’m 6’4 290lbs. He got such a kick out of that! Seriously though, he was my close friend and confidant. We spent many a late afternoon out by his lake discussing golf, politics and life in general. I’m going to really miss those times. Back in the day he was a fierce competitor on the golf course. He played for pride, not money. If he had played for money, all of us he played with in the Sandhills would be a lot lighter in the wallet! Once when paired with a newcomer, one the first tee, Mike said to me, “Are we playing our usual?” I replied, “Sure.” The newcomer then asked, “What’s your bet?” Before I could say anything Mike replied, “50,50 and 100” The newcomer was shocked thinking the bet was $50, $50, $100. “That’s way to rich for my blood!” he said. I then explained to him that our usual bet was 50 cents on the front nine, 50 cents on the back and one dollar overall. He then looked over at Mike who had a big grin on his face. Mike had a sly sense of humor. Rest easy Rev, Harvie and the guys are waiting on the first tee for you!

  3. I am so sorry to hear about Mike’s passing. He was a very unique and special man. I could listen to his sermons all day. When my husband passed the only one I knew he would want to conduct a service would be Mike. He just had a very down to earth approach and of course his love of golf helped! Rest in peace Mike. My condolences to Chuck, Jill, Mary and John.

  4. Oh Mikey, how I will miss you!! The jokes we played on each other, the emails and messages we sent each other. Say hello to Mom, Dad, and Bob for me and I will see you in time. I Love You and Miss You, and you are still 10 years and 20 days older than I am!!!!


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